Looks do matter!

Crunched with my favourite daily soap "Sex And The City", I have decided to contribute my first blog just alike to Carrie Brawdshaw.Talking with my friends, a sudden question popped up to my mind... "whether guys do howl at their looks while going to dates or it's just we girls?". And guess the response that i got from three out of five of them was 'Yes!'. My friend told me that ofcourse girls are more conscious, yet we also want to make them feel special by dressing for them (provided if she is beautiful and equally interested). Every girl want to look best at her date definitly but my conscious awoke by the question that "why is it important to look good?"

I personally am always well dressed and avoid meeting even my girl friends when there is blot on my face. I believe there is a strong hold of fashion in all of us, We all need to clinge to the newest of new trends and later showing it off to society how beautiful we look with the clothes adorened to our bodies. One of my friend was asked how he gets to know the economic status of a person and unsurprisingly the answer was 'Shoes!'. The myth that we all are relevate to! No,definitly a person's status is never known with the shoes or attire but obviously the manners. It's very much similar to the idea of Gentlemen in nineteenth centuary where everyone was gaining their standards due to industrialisation but the good attitude always belonged to the aristocrats. 
It's truely said that money can't buy anything if it would then good brain, healthy relationships, nature and all those intangible things that are countless could be counted on money.!

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  1. Priyanka26 June 2015 at 12:04

    Agreed! Nice article and nice topic to choose as your first one.

    Considering looks into a more profound viewpoint, I personally believe that for few of us looks do matter, but it can only remain for the initial impression, until one gets a glance of the soul of the person concerned. The impact of looks thereafter immediately vanishes.

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    1. Chayana Sharma26 June 2015 at 12:07

      P.S. thank you for commenting. True, soul matters as well..!!

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  2. journalismmits28 June 2015 at 07:47

    Well, this answers most of the questions boys have about what girls think about money and looks. The thing is in today's world looks and paycheck are the things that matter the most. On the " Things i want in a gf/bf " list the heart , nature and brain are now at the bottom. I am not saying that everyone is the same, but the the hot thing trending these days looks not soul.

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    1. journalismmits28 June 2015 at 07:58

      P.S just my opinion. :P

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    2. Chayana Sharma28 June 2015 at 11:53

      Sure! you can keep your opinion definitly! i guess that's similar to what i wrote in aticle... that money shouldn't be that big thiing it MUST be the way your spouse keep you.

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  3. Suresh6922 August 2015 at 14:37

    You have amazing knowledge of history. As I am reading I see you make so much references of ancient years. Well said it's the manners of person that shoe their status.
    If girl on date sitting with legs open, means they find you attractive and want to make love with you.
    If girl on date sitting with legs crossed, meaning they on periods and don't want you to know. It's okay boys understand how female bodies work.
    Also the societies beauty standsr are very harsh.
    Everyone following American with short spikes hair and hair gel and hair colours. It was gandhiji and nehruji who dressed like gentleman. Short oiled hair properly combed. I come from Punjab so we dress up very carefully, after I am ready my mother always call me "mera Nona babu" because I am so smart.
    It is the ettiquates and manners that make a man or whoman. Like great philosopher Leonardo DiCaprio once said, "Manners Maketh Man".

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