It's my way!

With all disappointments in your mind after scoring 95% in your school boards and scrolling yourselves in off-campus unknown college, you definitely feel “rejected”. And things go worst when you are even marginalized from the cool group of college because of your ‘bad’ dress sense.  The feeling of rejection doesn’t bolt here. It haunts you more, when you are unable to speak in English and you are rejected in your job interviews. You start taking the world as doomed and the worst you do is ostracize yourself which leads one in darkness, negativity, gloominess, irritation, nausea etc. You start changing yourself in order to get acceptance instead of rejection. Do not make such haphazard changes in yourself, instead adjust the knobs carefully and work according to it. Get to know what your strong points are and work smartly on it. Getting away from something just in sake that you can’t do it makes it no better instead worse… making you coward.  All ever renowned personalities...

Being Indian is growing difficult each day, so most of us are converting into Americans and Europeans. We love our culture so much that we have started abhorring it. When we make a trip to Massuorie, we think twice to share it but when it’s a trip to U.S.A  or U.K we tell our friends twenty days before that “hey! Guess what! I am going to U.S.A” and the other person responds to it “Oh! Lucky you are”. We dare to tell someone that the bag we are carrying is from some Indian handloom company but we very proudly tell that “yeah! It’s Versace”. We follow American soaps by heart but we dare to watch an historical program on Door Darshan … Oh! How I am even aware of such T.V channel? Many articles written already on to save our cultures and religions but none wrote on why this problem is arising. Is it that these countries are developed in much better way? Are the facilities much better? Do we love their broad minded culture? Or there is much more freedom there than here in India? The ...

Talking about the two broad categories of types of love relationships- Casual relationships (type A) or Formal relationships (type B), one has to be very cagey while deciding what their type of relationship is. We usually allocate casual relationships as haphazard, random, wobble, chaotic, messy but at the same time naturalistic. Whereas formal relationships are always considered as the act of pretentions, sign of incompatibility, lack of mutual understanding and sometimes very absurd. Whereas some critics have gone to extent by saying that casual relationships are for teenagers while young and mature heart falls for formal love. Thus we have added sordid ostentations to the tags of love stories. The above obligations are true to some extent and they can’t be avoided definitely. However according to my recent survey conducted of 16 female teenagers (at their late adolescence) whom I asked “what sort of relationship they prefer?”  ; I got “casual relationship” as response from t...