Fisticuffs..!!

With all disappointments in your mind after scoring 95% in your school boards and scrolling yourselves in off-campus unknown college, you definitely feel “rejected”. And things go worst when you are even marginalized from the cool group of college because of your ‘bad’ dress sense.  The feeling of rejection doesn’t bolt here. It haunts you more, when you are unable to speak in English and you are rejected in your job interviews. You start taking the world as doomed and the worst you do is ostracize yourself which leads one in darkness, negativity, gloominess, irritation, nausea etc.

You start changing yourself in order to get acceptance instead of rejection. Do not make such haphazard changes in yourself, instead adjust the knobs carefully and work according to it. Get to know what your strong points are and work smartly on it. Getting away from something just in sake that you can’t do it makes it no better instead worse… making you coward.  All ever renowned personalities   got rejections. They made their falls their strength and finally become stars that always shine unlike moon that either is waning or waxing. Some of those who started as a fail and ended up being stars are:-

  Ø  Amitabh bachhan for his long height

  Ø  Thomas Edison for spilling sulphur  on floor

  Ø   Sachin tendulkar for trying his hands on fast balling

  Ø   J.K Rowling for doing her all work on computers

  Ø  Asrani for not being up to the mark actor and now we all know him as the famous jailor of the      movie “Sholay” etc. 

And we all know where they all stand now. People who get success without hard work celebrate it once but those who keep on working on their failure celebrate their success forever. The best Indian movie that describes one to be themselves and not others could be “Tare Zameen Par”.  Thus that who taunts you on your dressing sense knows beneath that you can be successful without wearing those artificial LOOKS. And all those who threat you for not speaking English tell them one day you will and better than them or may be not but at least you’ll be better person than them. Everyone is not perfect in each and every field. There are areas where each of us excels and to that extent that where nobody can beat. It’s just the matter of luck! Some of us catch those areas early while most of us catch it late.

 If all importance were given to clothes than army officers who are in our rescue 24X7 would start wearing Gucci, Armani, and Adidas and then RBI will have to consult every month to Swiss bank!