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Building Trust: first step to calm down your crying child!

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 We have entered into the world of millennial kids. Life is faster, movies are shorter, workings hours are longer and there is a shortcut for almost everything for them. They want to do tasks quickly which look "ah-esthetically" perfect.  The image above proves a very strong point that we should approach a situation arrived when the child is ready not that when you have time to fix them. According to best of the psychologists, to build a rapport is the most important task in the first meeting that is, to gain the trust of the client. Even if during the whole 2-3 hours of session the client has not spoken anything but have nodded once to your question " Would you like some water?"; even that is the beginning of the trust that you have got from them.  A teenager might be unsatisfied with the way they physically appear, and a toddler may be unsatisfied with the number of toys they have. But a thing that would be common in all of them is the way they react. No matter ho...

A Literary Overview on American Drama

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Modern American Drama develops its eccentricities from the Modern  European  Drama in terms of the language, style, and structure; however, the characters in American Drama evolve psychologically on the notion based upon American Dream and Post World War mania. For instance, building upon Gatsby's character one can analyze that spending money extravagantly on parties and waiting for Daisy at the light post are two extreme ends that never match. Yet this character is created with an allusion that is psychologically disturbing for the readers to interpret. Where Modern European Drama indulge into the thoughts of absurdism, existentialism, and realism; American Drama procreates from the over-indulgence of characters into bawdry, rough and violent language and cynicism due to social and cultural change in America. The relationship of Martha and George in Edward Albee’s “ Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf ” (1961) is violent, abusive, destructive, and disrespectful. The communicatio...

Wonder why?

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On the day of his return, almost to the end of the winters, when there is chill outside, but inside it is warmness. It's march end and the night is sailor's delight. Its hazy like a labyrinth with the clouds as white, large and most of them yelling for the autarky. And me? I am bound to interpret what this string attached with him means. This could be three weeks of not having a word of conversation because: Dozens of mistakes Expressionless conversations  Weird stares  Unbearable voices  Illogical fights  and Unsympathetic love  make Chuck go crazy for Blair Waldorf.  At exactly 11;00 p;m of that day, an unexpected shower starts to rain.This was not soothing, because the lightening did not stop and the power of the whole city ran off for up to 4 hours from now. Welcome back home ! You have already started to rule the world and you say you don't know what your life means to you.  Clouds never roared that loud, there was never...

2. The After Wrath Lovestroy

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As I moved across her for the third time since then, I realized now things are normal. She does not happen to notice me anymore and is pretty much happy with her blistery friends around. Her best friend told me last night on call that she’s hooking-up with Ro, who apparently is the best guy which every girl in our school wants to date. And who am I? I am a silly, average looking egg-head who does not deserve at all to be her boyfriend. Glad that she finally gets to have a perfect man of her life! I definitely was a charity case! This princess of the town was making herself fool for all those past two years with me. But if that so, then why is she still so afraid to talk to me or is so bother to meet me for one last time! Does she think that she will not be able to get over me? Or is it some monstrosity! Few months later… I finally choose to bump into Nuts and find out what’s in her head. And why is she cross-checking me? If I am such pain in her neck then why is she so much bot...

1. The Monochromatic Lovestory

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  Agastya:   So it was her 21 st birthday, and I was thinking about what to give her! Like a gift that she would remember forever. So I started thinking like typical guys that I should gift her teddy bears, or chocolates or bang on at 12 a:m at her house with a cake and flowers (laughs) . But trust me that’s not me! ME: Of course and neither of you are teenage lovers anymore! Agastya: Right! In fact even I would never love to be that type of asymmetric  boyfriend and after knowing her since like six long years, I knew that you know… big things does not make her happy, she is the person who finds happiness in little things! ME: So when was it when you realized that you love her! Agastya: Ahm…!! It was not definitely the love at first sight. It took me a long while to get to a decision that weather it’s an infatuation or some likeness or so some monochromatic love. So I tell you, she is amazing dancer with an amazing sense of humor! ME: Oooh! Tha...

Still will!

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Sometimes i feel, i am possessed Or may be goodness is exocised large canvas wobble white Millions of people running wide I? I stare for long hours birds flying and my mirror-sister's unknown crime She stares me back powerless A shriek of fright veils within me. I carry myself to same places  caging, annihilation, distortion, choked What a victory! I am a walking dead eclipse I see everything with absolute bland But with them i merry Counting on stitches that they gave and will one, two,...fifteen still lamenting on their rules, still will!!

Kerala- God’s own paradise!

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Expanded over 38,863 km 2 large area and surrounded by Arabia sea on the west, Kerala is the most beautiful state that India can embellish. The state is full of vivacity, color, tradition, culture and scenic beauty.I have seen many tourists who believe in seeing every part of Kerala at once, rather than enjoying one part of it completely. Kerala is such a lavish land that you can't grab enough from it in 7-8 days. However, if you are there for a long time say 15-20 days, then it would be suitable to explore as much as possible. Otherwise you would be tired travelling and end up on vertigo issues.  My research and experience says that every part of the Kerala has its own charm and attraction. Where Munnar is famous for its exotic tea plants, Allepey is famous for the stay in house-boat and Cochin for its water port. Thus, I would suggest to the travelers to see only particular part of Kerala per visit. Talking about Munnar (where the above photo is taken), the town has it...

Blue hues

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Bruised head and Hands full of rashes. In the room of darkness, She stand still austere. Captivating luminous intensity   And the hollow throne. Imprisoned by the evilness she raised her head for Him.  There was a glistening spot tried and tried; stretched at length She raised her hands above the blues Suddenly, a florescent ray emits  All the redness turned into the  Shining colors of rainbow. 

The Sufferance

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“I had to count on birds, because stars were too arrogant to listen”. Now that my exams are over, I just thought to discuss on things that is becoming so bazaar in our life that we tend to forget their wrongness. These events are happening in front of us, yet we are compelled to fall in the trap of its atrocity. Society- a seven letter little word but contains every ideology in it. Why it is like everything in this world is a compound of the society? For instance take God- a human made hope, Culture- a belief made by humans on arts and customs, Religion- a particular system of faith and believe, Money- made to fulfill human’s avarice and undoubtedly you can give innumerable examples more than me. Focusing on the term society, I believe it as some chemical solution where society when reacts with a human gives “sufferance” as product entity. No I am not chemistry student but my body and brain is definitely going through some serious chemical reactions. Seeing the raising stan...

Her excellency!

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His fare chest and the high bumps on his hand, made her womb wobble. He drives a unicorn and the Ferrari. Both blue and alloy, I stand at the pavement of his crystal palace to embrace, his sentiments and his predicaments. He brings to me a diamond ring to place on my weakening fing Everything suddenly becomes dark, I thumped my heart and failed to beat. He took me on his unicorn to bury me To show his admirers he so loved me. When just the skip of a beat was taken to be my death and not some disease. PLEASE LEAVE COMMENTS BELOW FOR EDITING AND ADVISES. :)

Mr. Thunderbolt

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I felt for him without knowing; Without understanding I think about him this time, And all day and while I have nothing to say. Nothing for crave I have him just him. They say I live for him, My love is filled till brim. What about him Will he ever know his sin?  Will he ever come to you? Or is it just your ecstatic woe! But I say I have him just him. I know he will never come, I know that he will come My mind is fickle Till the time he come and tickle How does he look like? I don’t know! But he is there ‘Cuz with his each breath I survive.

Office of Humanity!

If being pauper is my crime, Thought the painter in his mind; Then atrocious is their sight. Waking up to the glittery land That everyone has transcend With the money minded band. Nothing to eat, no reason to breathe All are working as a creep Who only breathe to cover their needs? I went to color their ashy brown world Full of dusts, filth, and eyes-mould; But did not commit a crime so bold. They saw the color wasted But not me who lie ghastly He laughed and she held her curl hastily.  He died! He Died! Cried my wife Poor she unable to understand their naïve They said “pay us for the paint he wasted and stop crying”.

Unacknowledged

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Following is a write-up dedicated to the stage that most of us go through, College anxiety and problems- He entered into his college not predicting the next four years of his life. He was just 18 years old- young, jolly and vivacious. He was so inexperienced that he hardly knows how to stand on stage without stammering and shivering. So in his first semester of the college, he decided to explore himself. He performed a dance at college event when his seniors asked him there is no performer in the event and you have to perform. So he performed in his own freshers’, where he was to be welcomed, standing there performing for his own classmates. This made him more confident and in the next performance he taught his non-dancer classmates to dance. Well, his classmates refused to accept that it was him who has taught them so, and probably they could have done the same without him. Smiling forward and forgetting the event ever happened, he moved on. He held mic in college's fest ...

Empowering Struggle..!!

You juggle, swizzle, struggle in a muddle, knowing that nobody wants you to giggle. One comes fight and goes, without understanding their goals. I stand here in the mist of darkness, unconscious, unaware of the brightness. All are running for something, whereas i lye wandering and adjusting. The buzz of mosquito is audible, but my talent ain't recognizable. Such cagey, such naive the world is, I have forgotten to trust on my mascot that i always believed in. -Depressed Mind Thoughts

Daddy’s dissertation!

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“Father, father, father”; cried the two little girls, one with straight hair another with curls. Both wore that cute little red dress But he saw in it their future address. “why do you care for us so much? when you know we’ll go one day and prepare lunches!” the fat round daddy twisted his whiskers, who could not answer his two li’l listeners. he raise them soft and mature adorned them with jewels and furs while dropping his tears and bidding them in palanquin he said looking to their grooms “SO THEY TREAT YOU THE SAME, MY QUEENS.” This poem is a deliberate attempt to the upbringing of the daughters as "soft" and "mature" because that is what exactly Indian parents expect their daughters' upbringing. So keeping in mind that scenario, i have constructed a poem like this. :) 

Are you living healthy?

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Most of us start our day in haste. We sip the coffee and then finally rush to our daily course. And the whole day goes on without doing any exercise or physical job that at the end of the day makes us feel tiring and also obese. Also some of us intake protein shake, syrups, medicine or may be some milk component to boost our energies. But do we hardly understand the meaning of exercising the body? Oh! Talking about jogging, running, yoga, gyming and may be other potential ways to increase our efficiency will be so mundane. Because we all are busy people living our hazy city-life and we don’t have time for that. But mind it we have all time to party and obviously anytime to eat food. I am not trying to be ironical at this hour of time. But I am actually just showing you the true picture of your daily life. That how unjust you are doing to your body. Waking up early and enjoying the morning is seriously not enough. You need to be more .But what? This essay is an answer to this...

Splashing with "the routine"...!!

People ask me several times why i always chose to write an articles that in some or other way link to feminism.  Well! for one obvious reason that i am feminist  and secondly that there are only few men left specifically in India to trust over. Being born and brought up in Delhi and then seeing it transcending into an atrocious place to live (obviously due to gang rapes, robbery, eve-teasing and unhealthy environment for women etc). Thus the vigorous reaction come out towards all men through my articles. Though i do respect men who respect women and their equal space in the world. But talking to my few friends i just realized that it's not only men who want to dominate women but also the women themselves feel lovely being dominated. It is almost true to Edward Said's comment over blacks, that blacks feels subjugated of white, it's never the whites who want to undermine them. But talking psychologically, in case of women, men asked them to keep away of the important works b...

Waiting for being NORMAL!

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It’s said that whenever you have spiders in your dreams, there is a female who is ruling in your life. May be that’s because spiders also have big boobs to lure men! But what if there is a male who is ruling in your life? Of course, for that we don’t have such myths because we females have always been dominated by them. Thus something which is there always in your consciousness, you can’t really have that in your sub-conscious or unconsciousness. All of my female friends wait for their boyfriends at the coffee shop because they are always late, they wait for them to love them instead of lusting them, they wait for their boyfriends to give them surprises on their birthdays and they wait for them to reply back (I think this is the most common one). Since history has always been a major tool for scholars to proof their facts. Though I am not scholar but yes I have facts to. King Dushanta’s wife Sakuntala who waited for her husband to recognize their marriage, God Ram’s spouse Seeta w...

“My child was 5 when he had his first mobile phone”

Fostering and dwindling in the gist of technically advanced age, it becomes relevant to each one of us to know the proper usage and functions in our mobile phones. Well! not just we adults, but i would like to say- " a child of age 5 has definitely a sole right to keep a phone". Now most of you reading this article will have a thought_"has she gone maniac?(howling)...I will not read her articles!...they are so irrelevant?". Well i agree our stereotypical thought of miss usage of this little gadget has conquered all over the world. Proclaiming the fact that we also have several benefits associated with gadget, in next few lines your mind is going to turn into my favor. Going through google play I realized that their is one app with the name "kids Place- Parental control app" where parents can have a complete control over their phones. because this app blocks unknown calls, unwanted app downloading and market place. If you believe your child is misusing t...

20 reasons why are we not making in India..!!

Our honorable Prime Minister Mr. Narender Modi very easily made the idea of “make in India” viral without assuming the fact that India has been a region known for its orthodox mentality. It is not only difficult to terminate the mind sets of Indians into the advanced thinking process but almost equivalent to impossible. For the development of any nation the most important raw material is ‘ the need in the natives to advance themselves.’ So here are those twenty stupid beliefs that make us fall back from growing:- 1. We want to develop but none of us have employment satisfaction. We are studying higher and higher yet at the end very few of us become actually satisfied with our jobs. 2. We talk about equality, yet we bring Quotas in almost every fucking thing. The recent survey said that 57% of graduates don’t deserve to be one!. And we talk about making in India with our so-called educated people. 3.  We start motifs of “ beti padhao aandolan ”, now after 68 years of Independence...